大石 峰丈
- 2020年2月8日
認知症家族トラブルの原因
ある娘さんから 父の喧嘩をしてしまうんです。 私が何か言えば
「俺を馬鹿にして、除け者扱いして、陥れようとする」と 何をどう説明したら良いのかわかりません。 と質問されました。 誰が良い悪いの前に
知っとくべきことがあります。 それは
「認知の歪み」が起きていることです。 お父さんは
否定されていると思っていて
娘さんの行為そのものが裏目に出てる状態です。 なぜなら、お父さんは
心が動揺しているからです。 決して間違ってほしくないのは
娘さんの説明不足でもなく
お父さんの理解力不足でもないということです。 だから、
娘さんの指摘が正しければ
正しいほどお父さんは
自信がないから感情を出すしか方法がないんです。 というのも #認知症 #家族 #トラブル
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